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"Self-Love Isn't Selfish
You Cant Pour From An Empty Cup"

I spent a long time wandering through life, basing my whole identity on others' opinions and hating myself for not fitting the box I thought I was "supposed" to fit in. Putting up with bad relationships, thinking my dreams were unattainable, turning down so many opportunities thinking I wasn't good enough. 

 

I spent far too long in that lost unloving hole. That’s when I realised how important self-love is! It's literally the key to everything in life! I went from a totally unfulfilled miserable life to realising a world full of potential. I became content being single which funnily enough led me into the best relationship of my life. I undertook a plethora of training and launched my own business so I could help other women find the peace and joy of self-love and experience its true power.  

Now I have a thriving coaching business where I share all the experience and knowledge I have built over the years. I believe it is my calling in life to share this with you all, and every woman I help just solidifies that for me. 

woman showing self-love

Nothing compares to the feeling of true deep down unapologetic self-love! Especially, when you have spent years without it, never truly knowing who you really are or believing in yourself.  Some days are a dream come true, and some days are a challenge but never forget you are not alone, we are in this together. Now let's unleash this self-love and take on the world! 

You're in the right place if...

You want to start being a priority in your own life

You're ready to learn, explore and dive deep into yourself

You're ready to take action steps to create your dream life

What Exactly Is Self-love Coaching

SELF-LOVE IS A JOURNEY TOWARDS OUR AUTHENTIC SELVES.

Self-Love means giving yourself what your mind, body, and soul need for the marathon that is life. It is a practice of nourishing yourself and having a high regard for your own well-being and happiness.

Self-Love is a combination of both feeling and action. And contrary to popular belief, Self-Love is healthy, and it is neither selfish nor self-indulgent or narcissistic (actually, narcissists don’t love themselves at all; a “big ego” is compensation for lack of Self-Love). It also isn’t hedonism or chasing a physical or emotional high.

Self-Love is not somewhere you arrive, but a base from where you begin showing up for yourself (and then others). Self-love means taking care of your own needs, and not sacrificing your well-being to please others.

Investing in a self-love coach provides you with an opportunity to fully express yourself and make necessary changes to shift negative thoughts and behaviour patterns. I won't ever tell you what to do, but I will encourage you to look inward and ask yourself what you need and what you want. I will help you focus on getting in touch with your own needs, wants and values. When you see the truth of what you need and gain the courage to pursue it, you can break free from the painful patterns of your past. In so doing, you create space for a healthier and more fulfilling future.

Unsure what you need or where to start?

DO YOU...

🌟Have dreams or passions you want to pursue but always seem to talk yourself out of it?

🌟Struggle to communicate your needs to others?

🌟Feel guilty for saying no or wanting time for yourself?

🌟Feel like your mind is your worst bully?

🌟Constantly compare yourself to others & hate your body or your life for not looking like theirs?

🌟Feel like you're stuck in a constant cycle of bad dating?

🌟Work tirelessly for other people’s approval and validation, but somehow still can’t find that internal validation within?

🌟Feel like you have everything in your life to be happy, but still feel like something’s missing?

🌟Want to bring self-love into your life but have no idea how to actually start?

If you answered yes to at least one of these questions:

Don't worry
You're in the right place
I get you, I've been there

Katie J selflove coach
I've definitely experienced all of the above, I've been my own worst critic, lived in the shadow of others, and missed out on life experiences thinking I wasn’t capable and put up with being treated poorly. I spent what felt like a lifetime in the cycle of self-hate, I couldn’t even imagine life a different way.
But eventually, something snapped, and I knew I couldn't live the rest of my life like that, I began this lifelong journey of self-love and I could see my whole life starting to transform into something amazing. I became passionate about trying all the things, living life on my terms, listening to what my body and mind needed and seeking help for traumas I had never dealt with.

You may not be able to see it now, but it is possible to create a better life for yourself through daily self-love and self-care practices. There is a new, happier life for you on the other side of this negative talk. If you’re interested in my self-love coaching services, please schedule a free chat with me for more information.

I help women...

❤︎ Rediscover who they are deep inside, what they need from life and what they value. 

❤︎ Untangle what is blocking them from moving forward

❤︎ Understand their value and worth and really feel it

❤︎ Understand what boundaries are and how to set them

❤︎ Learn to accept and eventually love who they are

So they can...

❤︎ See a clear path for their future and implement the steps to get there 

❤︎ Have healthy relationships in family, friendship & love

❤︎ Know their boundaries and hold them firm

❤︎ Have the confidence to go for that new job/hobby/relocation

❤︎ Stop being at war with their body and mind

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